Saying about: Men tube world, women control men. Fine polish and words have taste. Tells the men and women of the biological, social differences, characteristics and the dialectical relationship between opposites, wit deep. Man is a symbol of the power authority, they need to weak management of virtuous women, which is beyond reproach positioning a woman to be reckoned with in the family status and role. made a wife of 30 years, after the real long-term experience of married life, the role of his wife only a point deep perception. good wife might be like this:
(a). the wife will love, love only was her husband
from the beginning has been simple for her husband to go blindly love sincerely care. Day a long, full of contrast gain stomach resentment. feeling understand the man, will love. before we do not love wisdom. husband really need to get, not a wife in life, as his delicate as the care of children, not all of the intimate emotional relationship. The heart of men will be interpreted as a encouraged. you shelter him as a cloak, to arm him to rely on. hope he does, straightforward request, do not take for granted that he should know, let him guess, it is the soft underbelly of a man poke. If the wife will love and according to the needs of men to control love, her husband would not hesitate to sacrifice everything for the family and his wife. On the contrary, when a man and his wife feel the family is not sure, or loss of life, and even worry about misunderstanding, he will act like a rogue, greatly reduced marital quality at this time. In women of the family and their own things, like men like to hear that Mrs. Eisenhower replied: Wife, believed that women are, as the only family and marriage life. Now enlightenment, men and women of the importance of family far more than his wife's imagination. They at least used to be their own families and women as a safe haven and comfort zone. which , where they want to be able to fully accommodate their successes and failures, weaknesses and mistakes. no matter what the time with open arms, to easily clear the family atmosphere accept them back. If we only look at a woman's thoughts and feelings of her husband, asked her husband, is bound to complain about the relative grievances led to conflict. and happy marriage often takes his wife to mother earth, generous, great patience, a lot of inclusion is not the perfect husband to seek flexor stretch. Here, the bottom line, wisdom , patient and constructive communication and running is the best inclusive. blindly encourage patience, or any unilateral irrational, will stay hidden, to a marriage marred.
(c) not to the marriage ; love care about his degree of concern for you, care about him the perfect character. If they hold to seize the day, the men for a living center, or want to transform her husband, you will get unlimited heart trouble and loss. sure to love and marriage footing based on both independent and tied basis to enrich and develop their hobby, improve their overall quality. Although men do not like women too, but deep down, he would never go to respect and love A neither assertive, and can not be independent, fully dependent woman. Men need women to complement each other, but also need the wisdom to inspire his wife continue to growth and progress. Despite their lazy and dirty, but you have to understand, but can not tolerate a poor hygiene, face the chaos of the home and inaction soberly face the reality, abstinence, improve yourself, always maintain the inherent charm of the life of a woman.
Let us transform an idea to understand the problem: other people look down on you, people look down on you. you despise each other, they is a underestimate yourself. Now that internet dating has been take, but also willing to hand across the bridge, trying to calm firm to change themselves, to adapt to life's disappointments, of life gradually improve. marriage very sensitive to transformation, transformation of the outcome is bound to break up or illicit sexual relations; marriage no right or wrong, feeling comfortable is the last word, you come to me, and only suffered a crushing defeat; marriage, much less win or lose, only win-win, or lose-lose; Nobody's perfect, how high the mountain valley and more deep. soon as we realize the truth to time to run, to enlightenment, to try to boot into a more stable state of marriage: intimacy and a distance, open and controlled. The two sides are not limited to the heart of trust in each other's freedom to cherish the heart and are not abusing their freedom, such a marriage can be long.
(d) understand the feelings of men as - distant - close. closer. Sometimes we over-close, will also have her husband to escape the situation, this is as much a psychological point of view the phenomenon of the past. to some extent too close to her husband and his wife, let her husband lose their sense of ;. When her husband time to be avoided, the wife should fully understand the psychological needs of men. men, in the pressure and hardship on a woman no experience, and sometimes inexplicable vent at home. in the interim to avoid or angry man, do not with him against each other, muttering complaints. give him the psychological adjustment of the full space, so he quietly sneaked into the love you more.
(e) the power given to man, man is the power of the techniques
symbol. When a man is a woman feel his hero, his power will grow rapidly. men are most afraid of being transformed to give way to force her husband: 1, should not be taken for granted to change him. men are not thoughts and feelings, do not demand perfection, and the lessons amendment. even if he wanted to help him get in one aspect or area to grow, nor a grand scale, cycle. this approach is not consciously undermine the power of man, will increase rivalry, 3, sincere and timely
(f) Do not expect a man outside the house and say what
life wife often complained about her husband, half the man outside the house. Why is he always so polite to outsiders, but to me, like a tyrant ? Why can not he too good to me? In fact, this need not worried about his wife. Because politeness is generally just a social need, both to the familiar left hand as his right hand, completely unnecessary like too polite entertainment. Because he put you as one of us, I think you understand this before so differentiated. If a man have been very polite to women, there may have been lost to you I'm sorry you love or do something.
(viii) a non-home call in as much as possible not to be easily, casually Luanjiang
man is a symbol of power and authority. the general principles of a man's household is: not allowed outsiders to interfere in internal affairs. home is a non- non-original is hard to explain things, easy to move if foreign aid, on the man's authority, the dignity of the greatest contempt. coupled with the baseless rumor into the outside world, men's self-esteem will be a complete collapse. to that time, even a man determined to reconciliation, is riding a tiger. If the wife really wants to solve the problem, the only option is to shut the door, do not expand the state of affairs, the two slowly communicate, and resolve the diaphragm.
(ix) not to take her husband and others in comparison
My husband seems to take his wife and family compare with others, is a serious betrayal of themselves and their families. They can not in good faith and desire to understand a woman's mind, only his wife in critical subjective that they expressed dissatisfaction. they will unsympathetic to think, if you are not satisfied, why do not you leave now?
(X) to be a good wife to their flexibility and spirituality to create
men appreciate the flexibility and spiritual woman. elastic woman , character, flexibility, flexibility, good compromise, and are adept at cleverly insisted. non-opinionated, but also a kind of assertive. Spirituality is the spiritual understanding, a spiritual quality of a woman born with wisdom, understanding, good things, the essence of enlightenment. She mellowness and deep, making people feel twice the flavor. spiritual inside, elastic aloof, its wisdom as an amplifier, all grace, these are precisely the marriage, a prerequisite for preservation., neither rigidly hold each other, nor weakly attached, people who love each other the best gift to the freedoms and respect for him (her) personality independence. love between two free people, have the necessary tension, firm does not harden; lingering non-stick hysteresis; a distance of not choking., thus higher quality to hand life together. Marriage is the longest walk of life one way, the home life habitat, the mind Yangshengtang. no longer be home where a woman, so his wife particularly important role. be a good wife, wise wife do open, is by no means to be a weak, silly little woman. in marriage, his wife still needs her husband's care, understanding, respect, loyal, caring and comfort. Only men and women support each other, give each other most in need of respect, appreciation, love and freedom, will grow out of the foundation of marriage, the most realistic, deep emotional relationship, the two will grow together, just melting into the real, complete and harmony. do smart woman! smart woman and the wisdom of the wise woman by another woman who has learned to change their own lives;
life-changing wisdom of the woman who has learned to rely on their own. intelligent woman who has learned to please men; wise woman who has learned control men. wise woman at the fashion magazine brush up skills; wisdom of a rich woman by reading the mind. smart woman beat around the bush like a baby; wise woman sharp and direct. smart beautiful woman; wise woman has taste. smart woman like : How do I have to; wise woman thought: I should have to do. wise woman understands men; wise woman to know yourself. goal is to be a wise woman wise woman; wise woman goal is to do yourself. wise woman like to display it on your own understanding; wise woman will prove it. wise woman to see the world with your eyes; wise woman heart to see the world. intelligent woman that is the reality of life; wise woman that life is art.
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