Thursday, May 26, 2011
Monday, May 23, 2011
Once had , and now present
- Ago ; ;
like with friends, and tell,
these emotions within the heart
now,
like to start some emotion inside my heart,
away and hidden in the bottom of my heart.
quiet when a man, turned them out, and slowly finish.
ago,
hate cigarettes, alcohol taste.
contempt in some people can not do without them.
now,
only understand why they can not do without, not abandoned, addictive.
ago,
an intuitive, if they work hard, you will be successful.
now,
found, even if the effort fails they are still there.
ago,
think that if others really good.
others will really good about myself.
now,
see, the original people of Hello.
is not necessarily true.
unpredictable people, perhaps, only to have the opportunity to take advantage of you.
ago,
always felt that in some people who really love each other.
will be like a fairy tale prince with the princess, a perfect ending.
now,
to see more, even if true, would not necessarily be the end of time.
ago,
foolishly thought that the total of their good people, will always be against yourself.
pet has its own, tolerance themselves.
now,
found, not in every human heart, I have an indispensable component.
ago,
always said with that as long as they really will be forever.
now,
slowly understand, that's always together, in the emotion.
also possible that only the eternal moment, no real forever.
ago,
that there is something missing, looking back just fine.
now know, some things missing, and missed a lifetime.
ago,
always feel that anything can be does not matter, anything can be do not care.
Now, understand, the more stressed does not matter, do not care.
more difficult to forget, hard to let go.
like with friends, and tell,
these emotions within the heart
now,
like to start some emotion inside my heart,
away and hidden in the bottom of my heart.
quiet when a man, turned them out, and slowly finish.
ago,
hate cigarettes, alcohol taste.
contempt in some people can not do without them.
now,
only understand why they can not do without, not abandoned, addictive.
ago,
an intuitive, if they work hard, you will be successful.
now,
found, even if the effort fails they are still there.
ago,
think that if others really good.
others will really good about myself.
now,
see, the original people of Hello.
is not necessarily true.
unpredictable people, perhaps, only to have the opportunity to take advantage of you.
ago,
always felt that in some people who really love each other.
will be like a fairy tale prince with the princess, a perfect ending.
now,
to see more, even if true, would not necessarily be the end of time.
ago,
foolishly thought that the total of their good people, will always be against yourself.
pet has its own, tolerance themselves.
now,
found, not in every human heart, I have an indispensable component.
ago,
always said with that as long as they really will be forever.
now,
slowly understand, that's always together, in the emotion.
also possible that only the eternal moment, no real forever.
ago,
that there is something missing, looking back just fine.
now know, some things missing, and missed a lifetime.
ago,
always feel that anything can be does not matter, anything can be do not care.
Now, understand, the more stressed does not matter, do not care.
more difficult to forget, hard to let go.
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Seven allows you to have a sense of psychological allegory
seven good enough for a lifetime of psychological allegory
(a) the growth of fable: the growth of apple trees will never do a
an apple tree, and finally the result.
the first year, which end up with 10 apples, 9 were taken away, they receive one. In response, angry apple trees, then cutting off, in turn, refused to grow. The next year, it bears a five apples, four were taken away, they receive one.
However, it can do: continue to grow. For example, the second year, it bears the 100 fruit, 90 were taken away, they receive 10.
is possible, it is taken away 99, they receive one. But no matter, it can continue to grow fruit the third year-end 1000 ... ...
fact, how much fruit is not the most important. The most important thing is the tree to grow! Such as apple trees grow into towering trees, those who have hindered its growth will be weak to negligible power. Really, do not worry so much about the fruit, the growth is the most important. Psychological Review】 【
you are not a meridian of the work has since broken family?
started work, you talented, high-spirited, I believe that But the reality soon hit a few of your Sap, perhaps, you made a great contribution for the unit that no one seriously; perhaps, but not only by verbal emphasis on affordable; maybe ... ... In short, you feel like the apple tree , bear the fruit of their own to enjoy only a small part, and falls far short of your expectations.
So, you are angry, upset you, do you grumble ... ... In the end, you decide not to work so hard, to do to match their own income. After the past few years, as you reflect on that now you have not just the work of passion and talent of the time.
But the essence is that you have stopped growing.
such stories abound around us.
why make such mistakes, because we forget that life is a journey, a whole, we think we have grown over, now is the time of the fruit. We too care about temporary gains and losses, and forget the growth is the most important.
Fortunately, this is not a Jin Yong novel of self-off passages. We stand ready to give up doing so, continue to move toward growth path.
Remember: If you are a working group, met do not understand management, management or error management brutal boss or corporate culture, then, to remind ourselves about, do not disgruntled because of the anger and the self-off passages. No matter what, have to do an apple tree will never grow because you always grow important than how much money each month.
(b) the motivation of the parable: the child in whom a group of children playing
frolic in front of an elderly, sounds a great deal. Over the past few days, the elderly unbearable.
So he came out to 25 cents for each child, said to them: happy, the next day is still coming, as always, playfulness. Come out to the elderly and gave each child 15 cents. He explained that he had no income, only a small to some. It also can be 15 cents, children are still happily away.
the third day, the old man gave only 5 cents for each child.
children with rage, Psychological Review】 【
whom you .
two types of human motivation: internal motivation and external motivation. If the internal motivation to act in accordance with, we are masters of their own. If we are driven by external motivation, we will be swayed by external factors to become enslaved by it.
In this fable, the calculation is simple for the elderly, who will the children's internal motivation factors, so it manipulated the children's behavior. Fables of the elderly, a lot like your boss, boss? And cents, like not like your wages, bonuses and other kinds of external rewards?
as a reference, such as coordinates of the external evaluation, our emotions can easily fluctuate. Because we can not control external factors, it is easy to deviate from our internal expectations, let us dissatisfied, let us grumble. Gripe and let negative emotions such as pain, in order to reduce the pain, we had to reduce the internal expectations, the most common method is to reduce the work effort.
A person can form an external evaluation system, the most important reason is that parents like to control him. Parents too prefer to use verbal rewards and punishments, material incentives and other control children, not to ignore the child's own motivation. Over time, the children have forgotten their original motives, what are the external evaluation of care. School, he has forgotten the original motivation for learning --- curiosity and joy of learning; work, he forgot the original motivation of the work --- the joy of growth, the evaluation of superiors and income fluctuations into his work the largest source of pleasure and pain.
remember: external evaluation of the system often is a hereditary, but you can break it, from now on cultivating their own internal evaluation system, to study and work into a
(c) Planning fable: a piece of paper folded 51 times
Imagine your hands are a big enough white. Now, your task is to fold it 51 times. So, How high?
a refrigerator? Floor? Or a skyscraper so high? No, a big change, the thickness more than the distance between Earth and the Sun. Psychological Review】 【
to now, I get asked a dozen people in this fable, only two people said that this may be an unimaginable height, while others think of the height of the highest That is a tall skyscraper.
folded height of 51 such terror, but if only the 51 white paper stacked together?
This contrast made many people feel shocked. Because there is no direction, lack of planning in life, like the 51 White simple stacked. Doing this today, tomorrow little bit of that, every time there is no link between efforts. In this way, even if each work is done very well, they have your whole life is nothing but a simple superposition.
, of course, life is more complicated than this fable. Some people, life finds a simple direction and firmly to do so, they reached the other end of life unattainable height. For example, I have a friend for your life is English, he spent more than a decade efforts, only the memory of the word reached the amount of ten million and more, at this point to reach the average person can not match the height.
some people, and their direction in life is also very clear, for example, to start a company boss, so they need a lot of skills --- skills, management skills, communication skills, decision-making skills and so on. They may try doing this in the beginning, and try doing that, none is particularly proficient, but in the end, open the company boss in the direction of these seemingly scattered the previous integration efforts together, which is a kinds of complex folding in life, rather than simply additive.
Remember: the power of sight more useful than the invisible forces.
Now, the popular place to find the answer from the unseen, such as the potential development, such as Success, that we rely on some miracle of life can be saved. However, in my opinion, Counseling Center, Dongguan Heng Yuan consultant Mao Zhengjiang more correctly, avoid the fables: cat escape the shadow of the tricks
, Tom and Toby found, as long as the sun appeared, they will see that they are crazy for their own shadow.
However, Tom and Toby finally have found their own solutions. Tom is always close their eyes. Approach is to Toby, always stay in the shadows of other things.
【Comments】
mental note of this fable, a little mental problem is how to become more psychological problems.
can say that all psychological problems are derived from the distortion of the facts. What facts? We mainly those suffering negative events.
because of the pain experience, we do not want to face the negative events. However, once occurred, negative events that is destined to be with us for life, we can do them up but is repressed into the subconscious to go, this is the so-called forgotten.
However, their subconscious will still continue to play a role. And, even if we have forgotten the fact that powerful again, the pain associated with these facts would still attack us, let us somehow sad, and can not be suppressed. This pain Let us further effort to escape.
development to the end, the usual solution is to these two: either, as we like the cat Tom and completely distorting their experience of life in all the important facts are ignored negative; or, we, like cat care than as, simply join their suffering, his own everything were very bad, since everything is so bad, that make their most sad event is not so original pain.
clouds mental hospital consultant, said Li Ling, 99% of drug users had a painful experience. The reason they did drugs to make themselves to escape the pain. It's like hide in the shadows, painful truth is a devil, the devil in order to avoid this, simply to sell itself to a greater devil. There are many alcoholism
adults, they have had an alcoholic and abusive father, father survive a lot of torture. To forget the pain, they learn the same way. In addition to these visible
wrong way, we humans have invented a myriad of all kinds of ways to escape suffering, Freud referred to these methods of psychological defense mechanisms. Too painful, these defense mechanisms is necessary, but worse, if the distortion of the facts of psychological defense mechanism is so intense, it will take a more psychological problems, such as obsessive-compulsive disorder, social anxiety disorder, multiple personality, or even schizophrenia.
really only one way to reach a healthy --- face the pain. Facing the pain would get a lot from the pain of unexpected gains, they will eventually become the life of the party of wealth.
Remember: shadow and light, as are the wealth of life.
one of the most important psychological law is, no matter how painful, you are no escape. You can only go brave face it and resolve it, beyond it, and it finally reached a settlement. If you own a temporary shortage of power, you can find help, find friends and relatives for help, or seek professional help, accompany you trust with you to face the pain.
Rogers, American psychologist, was the most lonely person, but when he resolved to face this fact and after he became a true master of interpersonal relationships; American psychologist Frank has a brutal and alcoholic stepfather and a bad mother, but when he challenges the fact and, ultimately, from the heart to forgive his parents, he became an expert in this area treatment; Japanese psychologist Morita horse was being serious neurological disorder, but he challenges the fact and through Morita therapy eventually invented the ... ... their most painful fact of life eventually became their most important asset. You can do the same.
(e) action fable --- crabs, owls and bats
crabs, owls and bats to cram on the habit. Few years later, they graduate and obtain a doctorate. However, the crab is still rampant, owls sleep during the day and evening activities are still the bat still hung upside down. Psychological Review】 【
This is even famous master of a fable, and its meaning is simple: action more important than knowledge.
used in mental health, this fable is also thought-provoking.
called profound knowledge of psychology. However, the more even the best knowledge of psychology help a person does not automatically become more healthy. In fact, I know some people who had studied psychology for many years, they learn one of the purposes of psychology is to rule themselves, but after so many years of school, their problems remain.
reason why this happens, a very important reason is, they do not personally, just far away as the knowledge of knowledge, knowledge, and not into their own life experience.
one of my friends like psychology, has been considered less sensitive than those of psychology, not suitable for Psychology. But the fact is that speculation is not correct. He is not sensitive enough, but he has a very big advantage: to know a good knowledge immediately in their own lives to do it. As a result, the knowledge that becomes a distant real life experience, he does not
If we say that the quality of high sensitivity is a genius, then the power is more important Gao genius quality.
this fable can come out of another meaning: Do not expect too much the magic of the mysterious psychological treatment. Always the most important force in your own body, the mysteries of knowledge, the potential development of mysterious, dazzling success and so forth, are far inferior to the power of your own body has been important. We used to go outside to find the answer to someone else looking for strength, the results have forgotten the power in themselves.
Remember: other people's knowledge can not automatically save you.
punch if some renju touched you, if some text or a new creed inspired you. So, these other people's words and experience are just a start, more importantly, a good knowledge you think you really use in your own life to go. Jewish philosopher Martin Buber
these words, I have always considered the most important:
you have to start their own. If you do not love to go deep in a positive life, if you do not own way to reveal the meaning of life for themselves, then for you, life will remain meaningless.
(VI) to give the Fables:
bees and flowers withered roses, the bees are still hard suck, because it takes before sucking off from this little sweet. But now in this little to spend, the bees suck the venom.
bees know this, because the venom bitter taste is the big difference with the previous. Thus, bees anger, however, breathe on it the whole world looked up to complain about, why the taste changed? !
Finally one day, do not know why, bee vibrating wings, flying a bit high. At this time, it found, withered roses around the flowers everywhere. Psychological Review】 【
This is the fable about love, is a young language teacher of the true sentiment.
some time, she was falling out of love, painful, and always wanted to talk about me, I hope I can give her some knowledge of psychology help. We have some time, but almost two months later, the total time they can not happen to get together.
the last time about her, she said: The pain of lost love is still plagued her, let her trance, unable to enjoy the beauty of Jiuzhaigou. Inadvertently, she noticed a little on the honey bee is a flower. That moment, her mind like thunder and lightning appeared in one sentence: was such a silly, she's the bees in this sentence refers to her own course. That moment, she had to give up the truth out of insight. Previously, she wanted me to help her out, but in fact, the long wings in her own body, she can fly to fly.
give up is not easy to give up love, especially painful. Because, love is when our young copy of parent-child relationship. Small children, no matter from which side, parents can not do without. If a complete denial of his father and mother, and that means death for him, this is the ultimate harm and fear. We have experienced more or less been denied parents the pain and fear, so when love --- of copies of the parent-child relationship once again we experience the pain and fear, our emotions can easily become very bad.
However, compared to love and parent-child relationship, there is a huge difference: a child, nothing we can do, all parents have the final say; But now we grow up, we have the power to choose their own destiny. It can be said, a child, we do not have wings, bee, but now we have a pair of powerful wings.
However, when deeply in love, we will return to childhood, we will forget a pair of wings to fly. When we realize that, after their love is no longer automatically copy parent-child relationship, our love was free, there is a give up power.
Remember: Love is two things, two completely equal, independent and human dignity thing. You can work, but not that hard for you there will be results, because another person, you can not determine.
So, no matter how much you care about the time love, if another person determined to leave you, please respect his choice.
And also remember, you are no longer a child, are left with the pain of torture. You have grown up, you have a pair of powerful wings, you can fly out of a relationship has become poison.
(g) close to the fable: the unique Rose
Little Prince has a small planet, the planet suddenly blooming flower blooming roses. Previously, only some unknown on this planet the flowers, the little prince had never seen such beautiful flowers, he fell in love with this rose, carefully nurtured her.
those days, he thought, this is a unique flower on earth, only his only planet, other places do not exist.
, however, so he came to Earth and found that there is a garden just the same as 5000 of this flower. At this time, he knows that he only have an ordinary flower.
the beginning, this discovery, let the little prince was very sad. But in the end, the little prince to understand, although there are many roses in the world, but his planet tis is still unique because that rose, he had water, cover flowers to cover her with a screen protection over , in addition to her body caterpillars, but also to listen to her grumbled, or boasted, listening to silence her ... ... a word, and he tamed her, and she tamed him, she is his unique roses.
Psychological Review】 【
This is a French classic
face of 5000 roses, the little prince said: But now we empty the increasingly popular We are anxious to have
. Seems that each has had a rose, the value of their own lives to Duoliaoyifen. Internet age, with several ten lover, is no longer a rare thing too. But I know who these promiscuous, no one is empty. They do not enjoy the relationship, they just enjoy the conquest.
But once owned, they will quickly lose interest in this intimate relationship. the stronger the desire to conquer, the faster the rate of loss. attractive.
However, the relationship between the United States, almost two inputs is the extent and degree to be tamed. When two people are naturally going into, naturally, be tamed, the relationship will become a life nourishment, so that a person's life becomes more filling and more beautiful.
However, no matter how close. The Little Prince is still Prince, Rose is still a rose, they are still two individuals. Rose not to travel if the little prince, little prince or non-travel the roses with me, they have to stick together, the relationship is no longer enjoy, but will become a burden.
Remember: both a close and mutually independent relationship, the relationship is better than a thousand general. This relationship will bring us the sense of loneliness from the hopeless rescue is the most important in our lives a kind of salvation.
If you have not experienced, you can not know the beauty of this relationship.
(a) the growth of fable: the growth of apple trees will never do a
an apple tree, and finally the result.
the first year, which end up with 10 apples, 9 were taken away, they receive one. In response, angry apple trees, then cutting off, in turn, refused to grow. The next year, it bears a five apples, four were taken away, they receive one.
However, it can do: continue to grow. For example, the second year, it bears the 100 fruit, 90 were taken away, they receive 10.
is possible, it is taken away 99, they receive one. But no matter, it can continue to grow fruit the third year-end 1000 ... ...
fact, how much fruit is not the most important. The most important thing is the tree to grow! Such as apple trees grow into towering trees, those who have hindered its growth will be weak to negligible power. Really, do not worry so much about the fruit, the growth is the most important. Psychological Review】 【
you are not a meridian of the work has since broken family?
started work, you talented, high-spirited, I believe that But the reality soon hit a few of your Sap, perhaps, you made a great contribution for the unit that no one seriously; perhaps, but not only by verbal emphasis on affordable; maybe ... ... In short, you feel like the apple tree , bear the fruit of their own to enjoy only a small part, and falls far short of your expectations.
So, you are angry, upset you, do you grumble ... ... In the end, you decide not to work so hard, to do to match their own income. After the past few years, as you reflect on that now you have not just the work of passion and talent of the time.
But the essence is that you have stopped growing.
such stories abound around us.
why make such mistakes, because we forget that life is a journey, a whole, we think we have grown over, now is the time of the fruit. We too care about temporary gains and losses, and forget the growth is the most important.
Fortunately, this is not a Jin Yong novel of self-off passages. We stand ready to give up doing so, continue to move toward growth path.
Remember: If you are a working group, met do not understand management, management or error management brutal boss or corporate culture, then, to remind ourselves about, do not disgruntled because of the anger and the self-off passages. No matter what, have to do an apple tree will never grow because you always grow important than how much money each month.
(b) the motivation of the parable: the child in whom a group of children playing
frolic in front of an elderly, sounds a great deal. Over the past few days, the elderly unbearable.
So he came out to 25 cents for each child, said to them: happy, the next day is still coming, as always, playfulness. Come out to the elderly and gave each child 15 cents. He explained that he had no income, only a small to some. It also can be 15 cents, children are still happily away.
the third day, the old man gave only 5 cents for each child.
children with rage, Psychological Review】 【
whom you .
two types of human motivation: internal motivation and external motivation. If the internal motivation to act in accordance with, we are masters of their own. If we are driven by external motivation, we will be swayed by external factors to become enslaved by it.
In this fable, the calculation is simple for the elderly, who will the children's internal motivation factors, so it manipulated the children's behavior. Fables of the elderly, a lot like your boss, boss? And cents, like not like your wages, bonuses and other kinds of external rewards?
as a reference, such as coordinates of the external evaluation, our emotions can easily fluctuate. Because we can not control external factors, it is easy to deviate from our internal expectations, let us dissatisfied, let us grumble. Gripe and let negative emotions such as pain, in order to reduce the pain, we had to reduce the internal expectations, the most common method is to reduce the work effort.
A person can form an external evaluation system, the most important reason is that parents like to control him. Parents too prefer to use verbal rewards and punishments, material incentives and other control children, not to ignore the child's own motivation. Over time, the children have forgotten their original motives, what are the external evaluation of care. School, he has forgotten the original motivation for learning --- curiosity and joy of learning; work, he forgot the original motivation of the work --- the joy of growth, the evaluation of superiors and income fluctuations into his work the largest source of pleasure and pain.
remember: external evaluation of the system often is a hereditary, but you can break it, from now on cultivating their own internal evaluation system, to study and work into a
(c) Planning fable: a piece of paper folded 51 times
Imagine your hands are a big enough white. Now, your task is to fold it 51 times. So, How high?
a refrigerator? Floor? Or a skyscraper so high? No, a big change, the thickness more than the distance between Earth and the Sun. Psychological Review】 【
to now, I get asked a dozen people in this fable, only two people said that this may be an unimaginable height, while others think of the height of the highest That is a tall skyscraper.
folded height of 51 such terror, but if only the 51 white paper stacked together?
This contrast made many people feel shocked. Because there is no direction, lack of planning in life, like the 51 White simple stacked. Doing this today, tomorrow little bit of that, every time there is no link between efforts. In this way, even if each work is done very well, they have your whole life is nothing but a simple superposition.
, of course, life is more complicated than this fable. Some people, life finds a simple direction and firmly to do so, they reached the other end of life unattainable height. For example, I have a friend for your life is English, he spent more than a decade efforts, only the memory of the word reached the amount of ten million and more, at this point to reach the average person can not match the height.
some people, and their direction in life is also very clear, for example, to start a company boss, so they need a lot of skills --- skills, management skills, communication skills, decision-making skills and so on. They may try doing this in the beginning, and try doing that, none is particularly proficient, but in the end, open the company boss in the direction of these seemingly scattered the previous integration efforts together, which is a kinds of complex folding in life, rather than simply additive.
Remember: the power of sight more useful than the invisible forces.
Now, the popular place to find the answer from the unseen, such as the potential development, such as Success, that we rely on some miracle of life can be saved. However, in my opinion, Counseling Center, Dongguan Heng Yuan consultant Mao Zhengjiang more correctly, avoid the fables: cat escape the shadow of the tricks
, Tom and Toby found, as long as the sun appeared, they will see that they are crazy for their own shadow.
However, Tom and Toby finally have found their own solutions. Tom is always close their eyes. Approach is to Toby, always stay in the shadows of other things.
【Comments】
mental note of this fable, a little mental problem is how to become more psychological problems.
can say that all psychological problems are derived from the distortion of the facts. What facts? We mainly those suffering negative events.
because of the pain experience, we do not want to face the negative events. However, once occurred, negative events that is destined to be with us for life, we can do them up but is repressed into the subconscious to go, this is the so-called forgotten.
However, their subconscious will still continue to play a role. And, even if we have forgotten the fact that powerful again, the pain associated with these facts would still attack us, let us somehow sad, and can not be suppressed. This pain Let us further effort to escape.
development to the end, the usual solution is to these two: either, as we like the cat Tom and completely distorting their experience of life in all the important facts are ignored negative; or, we, like cat care than as, simply join their suffering, his own everything were very bad, since everything is so bad, that make their most sad event is not so original pain.
clouds mental hospital consultant, said Li Ling, 99% of drug users had a painful experience. The reason they did drugs to make themselves to escape the pain. It's like hide in the shadows, painful truth is a devil, the devil in order to avoid this, simply to sell itself to a greater devil. There are many alcoholism
adults, they have had an alcoholic and abusive father, father survive a lot of torture. To forget the pain, they learn the same way. In addition to these visible
wrong way, we humans have invented a myriad of all kinds of ways to escape suffering, Freud referred to these methods of psychological defense mechanisms. Too painful, these defense mechanisms is necessary, but worse, if the distortion of the facts of psychological defense mechanism is so intense, it will take a more psychological problems, such as obsessive-compulsive disorder, social anxiety disorder, multiple personality, or even schizophrenia.
really only one way to reach a healthy --- face the pain. Facing the pain would get a lot from the pain of unexpected gains, they will eventually become the life of the party of wealth.
Remember: shadow and light, as are the wealth of life.
one of the most important psychological law is, no matter how painful, you are no escape. You can only go brave face it and resolve it, beyond it, and it finally reached a settlement. If you own a temporary shortage of power, you can find help, find friends and relatives for help, or seek professional help, accompany you trust with you to face the pain.
Rogers, American psychologist, was the most lonely person, but when he resolved to face this fact and after he became a true master of interpersonal relationships; American psychologist Frank has a brutal and alcoholic stepfather and a bad mother, but when he challenges the fact and, ultimately, from the heart to forgive his parents, he became an expert in this area treatment; Japanese psychologist Morita horse was being serious neurological disorder, but he challenges the fact and through Morita therapy eventually invented the ... ... their most painful fact of life eventually became their most important asset. You can do the same.
(e) action fable --- crabs, owls and bats
crabs, owls and bats to cram on the habit. Few years later, they graduate and obtain a doctorate. However, the crab is still rampant, owls sleep during the day and evening activities are still the bat still hung upside down. Psychological Review】 【
This is even famous master of a fable, and its meaning is simple: action more important than knowledge.
used in mental health, this fable is also thought-provoking.
called profound knowledge of psychology. However, the more even the best knowledge of psychology help a person does not automatically become more healthy. In fact, I know some people who had studied psychology for many years, they learn one of the purposes of psychology is to rule themselves, but after so many years of school, their problems remain.
reason why this happens, a very important reason is, they do not personally, just far away as the knowledge of knowledge, knowledge, and not into their own life experience.
one of my friends like psychology, has been considered less sensitive than those of psychology, not suitable for Psychology. But the fact is that speculation is not correct. He is not sensitive enough, but he has a very big advantage: to know a good knowledge immediately in their own lives to do it. As a result, the knowledge that becomes a distant real life experience, he does not
If we say that the quality of high sensitivity is a genius, then the power is more important Gao genius quality.
this fable can come out of another meaning: Do not expect too much the magic of the mysterious psychological treatment. Always the most important force in your own body, the mysteries of knowledge, the potential development of mysterious, dazzling success and so forth, are far inferior to the power of your own body has been important. We used to go outside to find the answer to someone else looking for strength, the results have forgotten the power in themselves.
Remember: other people's knowledge can not automatically save you.
punch if some renju touched you, if some text or a new creed inspired you. So, these other people's words and experience are just a start, more importantly, a good knowledge you think you really use in your own life to go. Jewish philosopher Martin Buber
these words, I have always considered the most important:
you have to start their own. If you do not love to go deep in a positive life, if you do not own way to reveal the meaning of life for themselves, then for you, life will remain meaningless.
(VI) to give the Fables:
bees and flowers withered roses, the bees are still hard suck, because it takes before sucking off from this little sweet. But now in this little to spend, the bees suck the venom.
bees know this, because the venom bitter taste is the big difference with the previous. Thus, bees anger, however, breathe on it the whole world looked up to complain about, why the taste changed? !
Finally one day, do not know why, bee vibrating wings, flying a bit high. At this time, it found, withered roses around the flowers everywhere. Psychological Review】 【
This is the fable about love, is a young language teacher of the true sentiment.
some time, she was falling out of love, painful, and always wanted to talk about me, I hope I can give her some knowledge of psychology help. We have some time, but almost two months later, the total time they can not happen to get together.
the last time about her, she said: The pain of lost love is still plagued her, let her trance, unable to enjoy the beauty of Jiuzhaigou. Inadvertently, she noticed a little on the honey bee is a flower. That moment, her mind like thunder and lightning appeared in one sentence: was such a silly, she's the bees in this sentence refers to her own course. That moment, she had to give up the truth out of insight. Previously, she wanted me to help her out, but in fact, the long wings in her own body, she can fly to fly.
give up is not easy to give up love, especially painful. Because, love is when our young copy of parent-child relationship. Small children, no matter from which side, parents can not do without. If a complete denial of his father and mother, and that means death for him, this is the ultimate harm and fear. We have experienced more or less been denied parents the pain and fear, so when love --- of copies of the parent-child relationship once again we experience the pain and fear, our emotions can easily become very bad.
However, compared to love and parent-child relationship, there is a huge difference: a child, nothing we can do, all parents have the final say; But now we grow up, we have the power to choose their own destiny. It can be said, a child, we do not have wings, bee, but now we have a pair of powerful wings.
However, when deeply in love, we will return to childhood, we will forget a pair of wings to fly. When we realize that, after their love is no longer automatically copy parent-child relationship, our love was free, there is a give up power.
Remember: Love is two things, two completely equal, independent and human dignity thing. You can work, but not that hard for you there will be results, because another person, you can not determine.
So, no matter how much you care about the time love, if another person determined to leave you, please respect his choice.
And also remember, you are no longer a child, are left with the pain of torture. You have grown up, you have a pair of powerful wings, you can fly out of a relationship has become poison.
(g) close to the fable: the unique Rose
Little Prince has a small planet, the planet suddenly blooming flower blooming roses. Previously, only some unknown on this planet the flowers, the little prince had never seen such beautiful flowers, he fell in love with this rose, carefully nurtured her.
those days, he thought, this is a unique flower on earth, only his only planet, other places do not exist.
, however, so he came to Earth and found that there is a garden just the same as 5000 of this flower. At this time, he knows that he only have an ordinary flower.
the beginning, this discovery, let the little prince was very sad. But in the end, the little prince to understand, although there are many roses in the world, but his planet tis is still unique because that rose, he had water, cover flowers to cover her with a screen protection over , in addition to her body caterpillars, but also to listen to her grumbled, or boasted, listening to silence her ... ... a word, and he tamed her, and she tamed him, she is his unique roses.
Psychological Review】 【
This is a French classic
face of 5000 roses, the little prince said: But now we empty the increasingly popular We are anxious to have
. Seems that each has had a rose, the value of their own lives to Duoliaoyifen. Internet age, with several ten lover, is no longer a rare thing too. But I know who these promiscuous, no one is empty. They do not enjoy the relationship, they just enjoy the conquest.
But once owned, they will quickly lose interest in this intimate relationship. the stronger the desire to conquer, the faster the rate of loss. attractive.
However, the relationship between the United States, almost two inputs is the extent and degree to be tamed. When two people are naturally going into, naturally, be tamed, the relationship will become a life nourishment, so that a person's life becomes more filling and more beautiful.
However, no matter how close. The Little Prince is still Prince, Rose is still a rose, they are still two individuals. Rose not to travel if the little prince, little prince or non-travel the roses with me, they have to stick together, the relationship is no longer enjoy, but will become a burden.
Remember: both a close and mutually independent relationship, the relationship is better than a thousand general. This relationship will bring us the sense of loneliness from the hopeless rescue is the most important in our lives a kind of salvation.
If you have not experienced, you can not know the beauty of this relationship.
Monday, May 16, 2011
Please do not
layout Colonel daughter
girls now appeared online, many support the armed forces, but also saw a lot of catches the curse. - One side is wronged side is a war of words, really boring, watching you all a waste of time. - If want to use - Can not live up to expectations point to do things a little cleaner, a little integrity. - A real - In fact, whether active duty or retired military personnel, whether soldiers or ordinary cadet, they are very respected, - I suggest:
more worthy of support to understand is that they paid a youth. Real - I suggest: Who will be impressed to see the military marriage would envy, but most should be a blessing, no one will not be married to a military purpose, because Real - My advice: do not is to spy on military secrets, but to really understand the military mind, strong and want to reach behind the soft, and soldiers not to strike up a conversation, indiscriminate affection joke. Real
I suggest: You should get the military experience of inner weak,
soldiers can be realized inside the sad, do not laugh
tears of soldiers, the military also has Rouchang. Real
military fetish. I propose: Everyone know how to distinguish between good and bad soldiers authenticity.
- in fact, please do not - A real
their wisdom, not who imagined drinking water. I recommend: Do not open
closed is falling in love, or just chat with less, but will always
in military space in the stroll, leave some words of blessing.
boyfriend who is best academy graduate officer. I asked her,
He took off his military uniform it?
? you think a qualified Junsao so easy to do so? First you have your own
has been seen as a wife? Life is not off the military uniform, army pension when you place? You might as well forget marry uniform. - Then, I was directly pulled dark. Maybe my words are too extreme, too obsessed with this girl put on an air of uniform appearance, forget
in uniform is a man of flesh and blood. - I often think, the same girl for
What about the military's perception to such a big difference but the
in the
soldiers want to be too perfect, without any fault of a little flawed, to find such a perfect and
retired military husband does not, possible? I do not know will not have a more exaggerated love the military action, but please believe that not every encounter, Please do not to - True
support the armed forces and recommendations, does not mean, and for an individual or collective, meaning more free radical and accusations. Now there are many support the military girl appeared online, but also saw a lot of catches the curse. - one side is wronged side is a war of words, really boring , watching you all a waste of time. - Now that wanted to use - a real those who support the army. marry. The In order to strike up a conversation and soldiers, indiscriminate affection joke. truly Suggestion: You should get the military experience of the weak heart, can be realized inside the military sadness, tears of the soldiers do not laugh, the military also has Rouchang. truly I propose: Everyone know how to distinguish between good and bad soldiers authenticity. -
fact, please do not
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real I recommend: Do not open closed is falling in love, or just chat with less, but the military will always space in the stroll, leave some words of blessing. I once met this girl, she would like to have a soldier boyfriend, best military officers graduated. - I asked her, a wife? life is not off uniforms, army pension when you place? you might as well forget marry uniform. - Then, I was directly pulled dark. Perhaps my words are too extreme, too obsessed with this girl put on an air of uniform appearance, forgetting to wear a military uniform is a flesh and blood man. - I often think, as a girl, and why on the difference between knowledge about the military so much. - I do not know will not have a more exaggerated love the military action, but please believe that not every encounter, Please do not to
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girls now appeared online, many support the armed forces, but also saw a lot of catches the curse. - One side is wronged side is a war of words, really boring, watching you all a waste of time. - If want to use - Can not live up to expectations point to do things a little cleaner, a little integrity. - A real - In fact, whether active duty or retired military personnel, whether soldiers or ordinary cadet, they are very respected, - I suggest:
more worthy of support to understand is that they paid a youth. Real - I suggest: Who will be impressed to see the military marriage would envy, but most should be a blessing, no one will not be married to a military purpose, because Real - My advice: do not is to spy on military secrets, but to really understand the military mind, strong and want to reach behind the soft, and soldiers not to strike up a conversation, indiscriminate affection joke. Real
I suggest: You should get the military experience of inner weak,
soldiers can be realized inside the sad, do not laugh
tears of soldiers, the military also has Rouchang. Real
military fetish. I propose: Everyone know how to distinguish between good and bad soldiers authenticity.
- in fact, please do not - A real
their wisdom, not who imagined drinking water. I recommend: Do not open
closed is falling in love, or just chat with less, but will always
in military space in the stroll, leave some words of blessing.
boyfriend who is best academy graduate officer. I asked her,
He took off his military uniform it?
? you think a qualified Junsao so easy to do so? First you have your own
has been seen as a wife? Life is not off the military uniform, army pension when you place? You might as well forget marry uniform. - Then, I was directly pulled dark. Maybe my words are too extreme, too obsessed with this girl put on an air of uniform appearance, forget
in uniform is a man of flesh and blood. - I often think, the same girl for
What about the military's perception to such a big difference but the
in the
soldiers want to be too perfect, without any fault of a little flawed, to find such a perfect and
retired military husband does not, possible? I do not know will not have a more exaggerated love the military action, but please believe that not every encounter, Please do not to - True
support the armed forces and recommendations, does not mean, and for an individual or collective, meaning more free radical and accusations. Now there are many support the military girl appeared online, but also saw a lot of catches the curse. - one side is wronged side is a war of words, really boring , watching you all a waste of time. - Now that wanted to use - a real those who support the army. marry. The In order to strike up a conversation and soldiers, indiscriminate affection joke. truly Suggestion: You should get the military experience of the weak heart, can be realized inside the military sadness, tears of the soldiers do not laugh, the military also has Rouchang. truly I propose: Everyone know how to distinguish between good and bad soldiers authenticity. -
fact, please do not
layout Colonel daughter
real I recommend: Do not open closed is falling in love, or just chat with less, but the military will always space in the stroll, leave some words of blessing. I once met this girl, she would like to have a soldier boyfriend, best military officers graduated. - I asked her, a wife? life is not off uniforms, army pension when you place? you might as well forget marry uniform. - Then, I was directly pulled dark. Perhaps my words are too extreme, too obsessed with this girl put on an air of uniform appearance, forgetting to wear a military uniform is a flesh and blood man. - I often think, as a girl, and why on the difference between knowledge about the military so much. - I do not know will not have a more exaggerated love the military action, but please believe that not every encounter, Please do not to
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Sunday, May 15, 2011
Recommendations on how the civil service exam ~ ~ ~ ~ super- professional
Recommendations on how the civil service exam ~ ~ ~ ~ super-professional, pre-existing with the absolute need it later, do not look for the world to slightly first stage: careful reading (including some summary information.) Counseling books similar, does not seek too much, a foot has been. Officially from October to prepare the civil service exam, I bought two sets of civil service resource material. And the two sets of textbooks are really seriously looked at it again from start to finish. Understanding of the basic content of the line test, and a certain understanding of the basic kinds of questions. Look at some conclusive information on the kinds of questions have a better understanding. Since then I have put aside resource materials never seen. Of course, read through the process, I have made detailed notes. (Takes about half the time) second stage: the beginning of doing Answers. After that I started 真题, continued to do, pinch time to do every day, from the national to local, do all to find the 真题, spares no one Answers. This is the speed of training. (About a month's time) Remember to stay two to three countries Zhenti to the final use of simulation exercises to do.
third stage: do Answers. The second stage is to practice doing Zhenti speed and train my concept of time, do Zhenti this is the question I do to improve the accuracy. This stage took me nearly a half months. To have done before Zhenti pulls back to do it again, then I ask themselves two questions to do every day, in the process, I ask themselves whether they are at fault are the subject of how long excerpt to my question the wrong in the wrong title by type together, and indicate the wrong reasons. Every day to understand all the wrong questions are. So quietly, I know a lot, the title is also growing smoothly, the speed is faster.
Phase IV: wrong question. In the previous stage, I extract a lot of wrong questions, although all understand, but a long time will inevitably forget that. Review this stage I was wrong to question, especially speech comprehension questions, read over and over again, until only give up to see what they were. On the relationship between the number in the summary of some special attention to the law, but also can not forget the basic rules of encounter should take the first topic to cover the basic law, rather than what he kept a special law to conform. At this stage, some of the more classic re-extract down the wrong question for later review purposes
fifth stage: classic mistake made Zhenti and study questions. Close examination, many people will inevitably be some worry, tension. I'm really serious about doing the above steps, I do not worry, do not worry, nor impatient. Because I can do to do has been done, and the rest is not my decision, so I can not, which is part of the civil service examination luck.
during the entire period, I will be out every night some time to browse the forum post, modify the title at the same time pay attention to the content of the post, so I keep consolidation of existing knowledge, absorb a lot of new knowledge, new kinds of questions. This is a very important step. State math exam last year, there are two questions I have seen in the forum, the two subjects not only saved me time, but also greatly stabilized my tension.
data links: math part:
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together with their own extract and summarize some of the general mathematics can score (unless special metamorphosis, thisthe situation does not need to worry about, the subject of metamorphosis for you, others may not be easy)
; PS: If there is time, but also Mathematical Olympiad for Primary School doing
language comprehension: Notes)
; ;
; ; speech comprehension is difficult to recommend some of these when I read for the exam. I hope to give you some tips
graphic reasoning:
graphic reasoning part of the fun, a lot of people like . But in the exam will inevitably encounter some bizarre graphics, then we need to grasp the basic graphics in addition to pay attention to the special graphics. Special graphics are hard to find, there is no general guidance on the book, our line of test questions is to look for special graphical area an important source, we must pay attention Oh
;
logical reasoning:
; ;
; ;
; ;
I see some logic to this part of the material . There is a downloadable version of the original, in which I could not find, and you forgive me. Logical thinking and reasoning in our daily lives are very different mode of thinking. We must note the difference. Of course, before looking at these data, the book must first look at the basis of guidance information.
some legal knowledge:
; ; as the personnel law school, part of the legal knowledge, and did not do a special review. This is our treasure for our bfd1123 help organize the legal aspects of on more comprehensive data.
analogical reasoning and data analysis book I just read the content of counseling, no specific review, plus a note of the evening browsing the forums Some things in this regard, so the exam went.
another review recommended a good place:
;
on the application of the review
on the application of, I can not talk too much because of my application is not good. But the test had a more or less, or some experience.
personally think that application of the necessary information: eight universal theory face to face, Banyuetan, s report, the two of relevant content. Of course, if there is an empty can look at the People's Daily
first stage: Read the guidance of eight books and everything. Read the book's main role is counseling guide you on. Therefore, application of a simple read through the counseling book, leaving some of the more useful things they think, so counseling can be thrown into corners of the book to go. Eight to remember everything, because the structure of measures roughly the text of the article is so few. However, to note that Universal is not eight universal, usable only on the right to apply to this post, otherwise, it is mechanically, entire article, there is no life. (About ten days or so you can)
second phase: extract useful in a sentence and countermeasures. These sentences should read Banyuetan his theory to the mining face to face, not have to be very hard to pronounce words and those of professional standard language, as long as they think useful, usable and countermeasures can directly extract the sentence down. For two sessions in the congress report and the emergence of some related content is different from the previous terms and new words, with particular attention to extract and understand and write in their own applications into the use of the time.
third stage: recite excerpts of the sentence. An application will be made on the article is more than one person, then, is a universal eight general structure and framework, and we extract the skeleton of the sentence is substantial flesh and blood. Because these sentences are a variety of articles from our own out in the excerpt, the relative with the original, this article is not easy to fall into stereotypes. We can also extract the sentences we have organized into an article, when nothing can bring them back back. (This phase of the task is relatively heavy, you can copy the edge side note, you can enhance memory. These two phases (phase II and III) together require a half months)
fourth stage: Exercise Answers. Zhenti is the closest we have to consider the subject of questions, one from which we can conclude Zhenti about the kinds of questions, on the other hand we can measure the departure from the Zhenti difficulty of the exam. Remember: This phase must not be lazy, be sure to start writing. Many people may be able to stuff all the relevant countermeasures reflected in the mind quickly, but they actually began to write but do not know where to start. Another point: Be sure to pinch the time to write. Meet the subject requirements but also to pay attention to the number of words. Because the examination paper to the box the box is fixed, once it exceeds the number in the box set, correcting the teacher can be very obvious to see your words over, and thus your score to be affected.
close to the examination, we have to pay more attention to the extracts of their sentences, if you have time, you can extract out of the sentence from the excerpt out of an important sentence again, so that We extract the more streamlined, easy to remember.
, of course, the first three stages, they also need to write articles from time to time, on the one hand Lianbi, on the other hand is to consolidate what they have learned, the memory is more profound.
data links: Universal Eight:
Note : eight is a universal way of thinking. If you can come up with more innovative practices or measures, do not let your limitations and then the eight inside.
recommend a predecessor's experience posted in the application of information:
a lot of information
application is recommended, but come. Recommend a good place for it right:
PS: application of the subject exam to write last time, I suddenly found my second title wrong, so scared I was sweating profusely was carried out to modify the scale is not only the beginning of a book is not clear, and time is not enough. Panic, I then added a few words later, barely able to meet the question in the question. Change over, my heart felt hopeless situation, do not write the last one to write topics are no longer valid. Is planning to give up, I saw comrades around being sped his pen, and suddenly there is perseverance ideas in my mind, so I picked up the pen to write, but because of tension, I have forgotten how I write, it , I usually back some of the sentences into a paragraph appeared in fragments in my mind, so these sentences and fragments are naturally fall from the pen to paper until the end of an essay exam finished, I was in a state of chaos . -------- So no matter what happens, to fill the paper is the examination is the most important task.
third stage: do Answers. The second stage is to practice doing Zhenti speed and train my concept of time, do Zhenti this is the question I do to improve the accuracy. This stage took me nearly a half months. To have done before Zhenti pulls back to do it again, then I ask themselves two questions to do every day, in the process, I ask themselves whether they are at fault are the subject of how long excerpt to my question the wrong in the wrong title by type together, and indicate the wrong reasons. Every day to understand all the wrong questions are. So quietly, I know a lot, the title is also growing smoothly, the speed is faster.
Phase IV: wrong question. In the previous stage, I extract a lot of wrong questions, although all understand, but a long time will inevitably forget that. Review this stage I was wrong to question, especially speech comprehension questions, read over and over again, until only give up to see what they were. On the relationship between the number in the summary of some special attention to the law, but also can not forget the basic rules of encounter should take the first topic to cover the basic law, rather than what he kept a special law to conform. At this stage, some of the more classic re-extract down the wrong question for later review purposes
fifth stage: classic mistake made Zhenti and study questions. Close examination, many people will inevitably be some worry, tension. I'm really serious about doing the above steps, I do not worry, do not worry, nor impatient. Because I can do to do has been done, and the rest is not my decision, so I can not, which is part of the civil service examination luck.
during the entire period, I will be out every night some time to browse the forum post, modify the title at the same time pay attention to the content of the post, so I keep consolidation of existing knowledge, absorb a lot of new knowledge, new kinds of questions. This is a very important step. State math exam last year, there are two questions I have seen in the forum, the two subjects not only saved me time, but also greatly stabilized my tension.
data links: math part:
;
together with their own extract and summarize some of the general mathematics can score (unless special metamorphosis, thisthe situation does not need to worry about, the subject of metamorphosis for you, others may not be easy)
; PS: If there is time, but also Mathematical Olympiad for Primary School doing
language comprehension: Notes)
; ;
; ; speech comprehension is difficult to recommend some of these when I read for the exam. I hope to give you some tips
graphic reasoning:
graphic reasoning part of the fun, a lot of people like . But in the exam will inevitably encounter some bizarre graphics, then we need to grasp the basic graphics in addition to pay attention to the special graphics. Special graphics are hard to find, there is no general guidance on the book, our line of test questions is to look for special graphical area an important source, we must pay attention Oh
;
logical reasoning:
; ;
; ;
; ;
I see some logic to this part of the material . There is a downloadable version of the original, in which I could not find, and you forgive me. Logical thinking and reasoning in our daily lives are very different mode of thinking. We must note the difference. Of course, before looking at these data, the book must first look at the basis of guidance information.
some legal knowledge:
; ; as the personnel law school, part of the legal knowledge, and did not do a special review. This is our treasure for our bfd1123 help organize the legal aspects of on more comprehensive data.
analogical reasoning and data analysis book I just read the content of counseling, no specific review, plus a note of the evening browsing the forums Some things in this regard, so the exam went.
another review recommended a good place:
;
on the application of the review
on the application of, I can not talk too much because of my application is not good. But the test had a more or less, or some experience.
personally think that application of the necessary information: eight universal theory face to face, Banyuetan, s report, the two of relevant content. Of course, if there is an empty can look at the People's Daily
first stage: Read the guidance of eight books and everything. Read the book's main role is counseling guide you on. Therefore, application of a simple read through the counseling book, leaving some of the more useful things they think, so counseling can be thrown into corners of the book to go. Eight to remember everything, because the structure of measures roughly the text of the article is so few. However, to note that Universal is not eight universal, usable only on the right to apply to this post, otherwise, it is mechanically, entire article, there is no life. (About ten days or so you can)
second phase: extract useful in a sentence and countermeasures. These sentences should read Banyuetan his theory to the mining face to face, not have to be very hard to pronounce words and those of professional standard language, as long as they think useful, usable and countermeasures can directly extract the sentence down. For two sessions in the congress report and the emergence of some related content is different from the previous terms and new words, with particular attention to extract and understand and write in their own applications into the use of the time.
third stage: recite excerpts of the sentence. An application will be made on the article is more than one person, then, is a universal eight general structure and framework, and we extract the skeleton of the sentence is substantial flesh and blood. Because these sentences are a variety of articles from our own out in the excerpt, the relative with the original, this article is not easy to fall into stereotypes. We can also extract the sentences we have organized into an article, when nothing can bring them back back. (This phase of the task is relatively heavy, you can copy the edge side note, you can enhance memory. These two phases (phase II and III) together require a half months)
fourth stage: Exercise Answers. Zhenti is the closest we have to consider the subject of questions, one from which we can conclude Zhenti about the kinds of questions, on the other hand we can measure the departure from the Zhenti difficulty of the exam. Remember: This phase must not be lazy, be sure to start writing. Many people may be able to stuff all the relevant countermeasures reflected in the mind quickly, but they actually began to write but do not know where to start. Another point: Be sure to pinch the time to write. Meet the subject requirements but also to pay attention to the number of words. Because the examination paper to the box the box is fixed, once it exceeds the number in the box set, correcting the teacher can be very obvious to see your words over, and thus your score to be affected.
close to the examination, we have to pay more attention to the extracts of their sentences, if you have time, you can extract out of the sentence from the excerpt out of an important sentence again, so that We extract the more streamlined, easy to remember.
, of course, the first three stages, they also need to write articles from time to time, on the one hand Lianbi, on the other hand is to consolidate what they have learned, the memory is more profound.
data links: Universal Eight:
Note : eight is a universal way of thinking. If you can come up with more innovative practices or measures, do not let your limitations and then the eight inside.
recommend a predecessor's experience posted in the application of information:
a lot of information
application is recommended, but come. Recommend a good place for it right:
PS: application of the subject exam to write last time, I suddenly found my second title wrong, so scared I was sweating profusely was carried out to modify the scale is not only the beginning of a book is not clear, and time is not enough. Panic, I then added a few words later, barely able to meet the question in the question. Change over, my heart felt hopeless situation, do not write the last one to write topics are no longer valid. Is planning to give up, I saw comrades around being sped his pen, and suddenly there is perseverance ideas in my mind, so I picked up the pen to write, but because of tension, I have forgotten how I write, it , I usually back some of the sentences into a paragraph appeared in fragments in my mind, so these sentences and fragments are naturally fall from the pen to paper until the end of an essay exam finished, I was in a state of chaos . -------- So no matter what happens, to fill the paper is the examination is the most important task.
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Write to be able to see people understand
addressed to the person can understand
when I first met you on the Internet, it is really a chance, to know that your personal information only, sometimes we just chat online, do not see that you are kind, strong inner world. Gradually the familiar, let me appreciate the perfect you. Net vast sea, only a different kind of love you are the . If the earth really reincarnation, I would like to bump into you again next life, to continue this edge.
because the acquaintance and familiar, as familiar and like it, because I like and care, because care The emotional,
although not as romantic as Valentine's, but did miss their loved ones will be like.
Since you met online, I was a little more care, more of a miss, it can have many happy, every day and see you online. This has become my every days must be done to see if you are not online and see if you did not give me a shout, look at your data, there are no new site to see if your space your new poems.
; whether you are online, I will see you online every day. look at your head, like a sitting face to face with you, even though we are separated far away, or have a heart to heart feeling, looking at your picture, I feel you just like my loved ones. even though you do not come out often invisible, does not speak, but I still feel for you as the Qingxin natural.
Maybe you do not know, I like it waiting for you, like QQ and watch your head daze. I like this so you see how you feel, like your text in the Sad rain, like to chat in your sense of humor and witty.
the sea there is a net worth of people waiting for me so, and one whom I so think of, I think this is a kind of sustenance, a kind of happiness, I will wait for you like, I like that line every day to see you, even if wait till midnight, and my heart is such a sweet feeling.
all the truth is buried in the heart, as long as good faith towards each other, as long as they really pay, fought, why should they care about the results?
in their lifetime to meet a caring for each other, encourage each other, treat each other sincerely my friend is really lucky. is what makes us know each other as friends, is a leading edge may be met.
when I first met you on the Internet, it is really a chance, to know that your personal information only, sometimes we just chat online, do not see that you are kind, strong inner world. Gradually the familiar, let me appreciate the perfect you. Net vast sea, only a different kind of love you are the . If the earth really reincarnation, I would like to bump into you again next life, to continue this edge.
because the acquaintance and familiar, as familiar and like it, because I like and care, because care The emotional,
although not as romantic as Valentine's, but did miss their loved ones will be like.
Since you met online, I was a little more care, more of a miss, it can have many happy, every day and see you online. This has become my every days must be done to see if you are not online and see if you did not give me a shout, look at your data, there are no new site to see if your space your new poems.
; whether you are online, I will see you online every day. look at your head, like a sitting face to face with you, even though we are separated far away, or have a heart to heart feeling, looking at your picture, I feel you just like my loved ones. even though you do not come out often invisible, does not speak, but I still feel for you as the Qingxin natural.
Maybe you do not know, I like it waiting for you, like QQ and watch your head daze. I like this so you see how you feel, like your text in the Sad rain, like to chat in your sense of humor and witty.
the sea there is a net worth of people waiting for me so, and one whom I so think of, I think this is a kind of sustenance, a kind of happiness, I will wait for you like, I like that line every day to see you, even if wait till midnight, and my heart is such a sweet feeling.
all the truth is buried in the heart, as long as good faith towards each other, as long as they really pay, fought, why should they care about the results?
in their lifetime to meet a caring for each other, encourage each other, treat each other sincerely my friend is really lucky. is what makes us know each other as friends, is a leading edge may be met.
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
The mother 's life is what you do, you know
The mother's life is what you do, you know? ? From 1 to 50 years old, his look at it ~ ~ ~ look to the top!
when you 1 year old, she fed you and give you a bath nurse; and in return, you cried all night; When you are 3 years old
when you cook for her love and affection; and in return, you put a plate of her cooking on the floor;
4 years old when you when you bought her crayons; and in return, you painted Manqiang the abstract;
when you're 5 years old , she bought you a beautiful dress; and in return, you wear it to the mud to play;
when you were 7 years old, she bought you the ball; in return, you use the ball broke the neighbor's glass;
when you were 9 years old, she paid a lot of money to give you guidance piano; and as in return, you often do not go to practice absent;
when you were 11 years old, she accompanied you and your friends to the movies; and as in return, you let her take a different row;
when you're 13 years old, she suggested that you go to the hair cut, and you do not know what she said now fashionable hairstyle;
When you are 14 years old, she paid you a month's summer camp expenses, but you have a whole month without a phone call to her;
when you 15 years old, she came home from work to give you a hug, and in return, you turn the door bolted into the room;
when you were 17 years old, she was expecting an important call, and you are holding the phone and talk to your friends for a night; ;
when you're 18 years old, she was your high school graduation was moved to tears, and you are **** out with friends until dawn;
when When you are 19 years old, she paid your college tuition and send you to school, you asked her to get off the fear of the students in the far point to see a joke;
when you 20 years old, she asked you Buy furniture layout of your new home, and your friend that she bought the furniture too bad;
when you were 30 years old, she presented on how to take care of children advice, and you said to her: Mom, times are different;
when you're 40 years old, she call you that birthday today, and you answer: Mom, I'm too busy;
when you're 50 years old, she is often sick, need your care, but you have to run around for your sons and daughters;
finally one day she died, all of a sudden you think of the things never done, they are like a hammer-like blow your heart.
If the mother is still alive, so do not forget deeper than ever in love with her.
if she has unfortunately never left you, then you must remember that mother love is the most selfless love under the sun.
when you 1 year old, she fed you and give you a bath nurse; and in return, you cried all night; When you are 3 years old
when you cook for her love and affection; and in return, you put a plate of her cooking on the floor;
4 years old when you when you bought her crayons; and in return, you painted Manqiang the abstract;
when you're 5 years old , she bought you a beautiful dress; and in return, you wear it to the mud to play;
when you were 7 years old, she bought you the ball; in return, you use the ball broke the neighbor's glass;
when you were 9 years old, she paid a lot of money to give you guidance piano; and as in return, you often do not go to practice absent;
when you were 11 years old, she accompanied you and your friends to the movies; and as in return, you let her take a different row;
when you're 13 years old, she suggested that you go to the hair cut, and you do not know what she said now fashionable hairstyle;
When you are 14 years old, she paid you a month's summer camp expenses, but you have a whole month without a phone call to her;
when you 15 years old, she came home from work to give you a hug, and in return, you turn the door bolted into the room;
when you were 17 years old, she was expecting an important call, and you are holding the phone and talk to your friends for a night; ;
when you're 18 years old, she was your high school graduation was moved to tears, and you are **** out with friends until dawn;
when When you are 19 years old, she paid your college tuition and send you to school, you asked her to get off the fear of the students in the far point to see a joke;
when you 20 years old, she asked you Buy furniture layout of your new home, and your friend that she bought the furniture too bad;
when you were 30 years old, she presented on how to take care of children advice, and you said to her: Mom, times are different;
when you're 40 years old, she call you that birthday today, and you answer: Mom, I'm too busy;
when you're 50 years old, she is often sick, need your care, but you have to run around for your sons and daughters;
finally one day she died, all of a sudden you think of the things never done, they are like a hammer-like blow your heart.
If the mother is still alive, so do not forget deeper than ever in love with her.
if she has unfortunately never left you, then you must remember that mother love is the most selfless love under the sun.
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